Just in case you thought I never say anything about what I love, here is a (partial) list of what makes musical life rewarding, thrilling, challenging, irreplaceable (in no particular order):
I love to discover a new piece that surprises me, thrills me, moves me, engages me, tickles me and / or takes me on an enthralling musical trip. I hope I never stop finding new operas, concerti, symphonies, quartets, vocal works, orchestral works, musicals, jazz tunes, pop tunes, and things that fit none of these categories. And I love to share works I love with someone who hasn't heard them yet. So if you're looking for suggestions...
I love to discover a new piece that surprises me, thrills me, moves me, engages me, tickles me and / or takes me on an enthralling musical trip. I hope I never stop finding new operas, concerti, symphonies, quartets, vocal works, orchestral works, musicals, jazz tunes, pop tunes, and things that fit none of these categories. And I love to share works I love with someone who hasn't heard them yet. So if you're looking for suggestions...
I love to revisit a piece of music I have not heard in years to "rediscover" its pleasures. If I hear it live, all the better. I have so many recordings of so many wonderful compositions, I could do this every day and not repeat for a decade--easily, with some leftover. But I'm including short pieces as well, in various musical forms other than "classical" including jazz, Broadway musicals, movie scores, and even some "pop" (though not any recent because the radio stations mostly play shit...unless it's "Country", which does have some talented people doing talented things, I just don't like it.)
I love to see a wonderful singing actors give performances that stay with you forever. And again, I do not just mean classical performers, but certainly many of those, too. Placido Domingo performing Idomeneo and Die Walkure, Deborah Polaski in Elektra, Renee Fleming singing La Traviata and Eugene Onegin (and others), Natalie Dessay in Ariadne auf Naxos and Lucia di Lammermoor (and others), Thomas Hampson in Das Lied von der Erde and Tannhauser, Victoria Clark in The Light in the Piazza, Christine Ebersole in Grey Gardens, Bernadette Peters in Gypsy and A Little Night Music, Leo Norbert Butz in Dirty Rotten Scoundrels (yes, I know it was a light comedy, but he was priceless), etc. etc....really, a full list would be dull, so I'll stop now.
Seeing a stage production that is so right in (most) every detail as to be as close to perfect as you will get: Private Lives with Lindsay Duncan and Alan Rickman, Grey Gardens with Christine Ebersole and Mary Louise Wilson giving the performances of their lives, The Light in the Piazza with Victoria Clark and Kelli O'Hara, South Pacific also with O'Hara and Paulo Szot, Nine with Antonio Banderas (I didn't expect him to be great either but I was wrong) and Chita Rivera but everyone was memorable including Tony winner Jane Krakowski, at at the Met: Elektra, Moses und Aron, Lulu, From the House of the Dead, Eugene Onegin, War and Peace. (I have been unlucky when it comes to the more "standard" rep: some poor performances or bad staging or weak conducting--or all of these, alas. I have yet to see anything that did not have some elements that were at least good and quite often great, still...one of these days.)
A live performance by an instrumentalist that is seared in my memory (here are a few): Jorge Bolet in recital, B.B. King playing Lucille at an impromptu midnight jam session with Bobby "Blue" Bland, Gil Shaham playing the Brahms concerto like a matador slaying a bull, Emmanuel Ax in recital, Mose Allison becoming a musical madman while the audience expecting your "normal" jazz set just smiled blankly in his direction, Christopher Parkening playing exquisite miniatures, Javier Oviedo and Carla McElheny at Weill Hall (a true collaboration), and the greatest single performance of my life: to celebrate his 75th year on Earth, Mstislav Rostropovich playing a new work and Dvorak concerto. (He is one of my favorite musicians who ever recorded and I was finally lucky enough to hear him "live" playing the Dvorak like no one else can. I was not alone in my tears.)
Videos of operas or shows that I was not lucky enough to see live but still "come through" as great events (not always true of performances on video as opposed to "films"): Hamlet with Derek Jacobi and Patrick Stewart, original company of Sunday in the Park With George, Cyrano de Bergerac also with Jacobi, Les Troyens in Paris for Berlioz' Bi-centennial, original company of Into the Woods (though I have a few quibbles about the show) original company of Passion, War and Peace also in Paris, Bernadette Peters in concert in London, Matthew Bourne's Swan Lake with the original cast (I did see it later after he revised it...which only lessened its impact), Peter Pears in Peter Grimes and Billy Budd, then Philip Langridge in the same two operas, Birtwistle's The Minotaur, Henze's Der Junge Lord, Ian McKellen in King Lear, From the House of the Dead--same production that came to the Met, etc. I actually enjoy many videos of stage performances, so I just named some I am particularly fond of.
Brilliant, special, beloved audio recordings: 100's. Really good recordings: 1000's. One (wonderful) choice from "each" type: cast album City of Angels, Ella Fitzgerald Song Books (I know, I cheated: this boxed set has 13 discs. I love all of them.) Simon Rattle conducting Mahler's 2nd Symphony, Rostropovich playing Bach Suites, Henze's The Bassarids, Queen's Greatest Hits, John Coltrane and Johnny Hartman.
Talking with someone who actually knows and loves classical music that is beyond the standard rep. Even better if they know some of my own favorites that are really beyond the standard rep, like Birtwistle, Henze, Norgard, Rihm, Busoni, Schulhoff, Krasa, Cavalli, Chabrier, Lidholm, Rimsky-Korsakov operas, Ades, Creston, Gerhard, Dutilleux, Dvorak operas other than Rusalka, Goldschmidt, most of Britten, Szmanowski, Schreker, Bernstein classical pieces, probably a few I'm just not thinking of at the moment, many others that I quite enjoy but do not love and pieces by the well-played composers that are less well known. (That list would be book length.) These talks have been some of the most delightful hours I have spent. Their rarity makes them all the more treasurable.
And last for now: experiencing music with someone you love. In any form. Nothing as sweet. May I have a lifetime more of these precious moments.
P.S. Yes, I know I included some non-musical things but they were connected in spirit.